Best friend crush!

Now this is a problem that you may hear every day, sorry. So I like this boy from my class. It's been 3 years since we first met, and I liked him from the first moment I saw him. But he is my best friend. He is so good to me and sometimes shows some signs like he likes me too. But I just can't get the chance to talk to him privately, you know to see what does he think about everything. When we talk, we talk about music, movies, games... but never about us and the situation. Most of the boys from my class are assholes towards their girlfriends, it's disgusting, and I'm afraid that he will become one of them. But he isn't yet, and I hope he won't be. He lost his mother a couple of years ago so he has some respect towards girls. We are otp in our class but there is this little distance between us, it's like we wanna be together but are so shy and awkward to talk seriously. Or at least that's what I think. I know this is all probably dumb to you but I wanna know what should I do, make a move or sth? Ughh

Andjela

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okay first of all! Andjela this is not stupid just a completely normal situation that happens to way more people than you'd think. I myself have had a lot of experience here and I have learned that it is better to not make a move but turn the conversation a bit the next time you're talking. Maybe ask him something along the lines of "so my mind started thinking about you know, us being the otp of our class lol! and I just started thinking what it would be like....like have you ever wondered what it would be like if we maybe started dating?, sry for the randomness but I just really wanted to share my thought with you 😛" But if you are afraid that this might ruin the friendship then just take a breather and think to yourself "I am worth it and if this does not work out and our whole friendship ends, then this was never meant to be!"


~ Lottie