Different isn't bad!

Just because its different, doesn't mean its bad.

Things sometimes have to change before they get better. 

Whether its your friendship groups, what you do in your spare time, relationships or even cleaning your room, change isn't always bad.

I have witnessed a lot of change recently, and although I believed at the time that this was a bad thing, it turned out that it has improved my life for the better. Breaking up in any relationship is tough, romantic or otherwise - but it can be dealt with and you will feel better after some changes are made. What can speed up this process is focusing on yourself and whats best for you. This may be something that people don't particularly enjoy doing, but sometimes you have to be selfish to benefit yourself. Thinking about whether or not the people around you are benefiting or detrimenting you is most important, as these people can limit you from achieving what you want in life or even take you down the wrong path and get you involved in things you don't particularly want to do. From personal experience I know this to be true, and it can be very hard to hold your ground or find the true you once you are surrounded by negative situations. Changing the way you eat, the way you think and the way you do things can be equally as beneficial. Instead of thinking negatively, find the positives in the circumstance. This can be hard but when you get used to it, it becomes almost a routine and you will find yourself a lot happier.

Always remember no matter how alone you may feel, you have people around you supporting and loving you - there is always someone, you are never alone. 

Abbie