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By Camille It happened. Again. It does not matter how I am feeling or what I was doing, it never fails to make its presence known. I can feel it rumbling in my chest, slowly creeping in my bones, begging to be let out. I feel helpless in these moments, and I hate every second of it. Anxiety has always had a place in my life. Unfortunately, it has become a bigger problem as I grow older, becoming a thorn in my side. Nowadays it feels as though I am in a constant state of anxiety, with the occasional flare-ups. Compared to how I feel during a flare-up, I do not necessarily mind being in a constant state of anxiety. But, that does not mean I don’t yearn for the years when my only anxiety came from having to speak in front of the class. My constant state of anxiety derives from my constant worrying about my future. I know what I want to do, but I am worried that I might not achieve that, and while I have a backup plan, it doesn’t sound as enticing as my initial plans. While my continuous anxiousness isn’t too bothersome, it is the sudden intensity of anxiety at times that is causing me to write this article. I have never experienced flare-ups before so when I faced my first one, I did not know how to react. The flare-ups I had were extreme anxiety that was very stubborn and did not want to leave my system. A flare-up is defined as a sudden outburst of something. One moment I am content, then I experience a flare-up that causes my anxiety levels to spike. In fact, I never even realized it was a flare-up until I continued to have them and realized I had the same symptoms. The symptoms I had during these episodes include:
The hardest part about dealing with these episodes is the sole fact that I am doing it alone. I was never one to voice my thoughts aloud, the only way I speak my feelings is through writing articles, hoping to find some sort of solace from those that read them. On the other hand, since America does not offer free healthcare to all, I cannot receive any medication or medical attention without having to spend money I don’t even have. My solutions to these problems come from reading articles from other people experiencing the same thing, research, and trial and error. My main word of advice is if you can get help, please do so; whether that be in the form of professional counselling and/or medication. If you find yourself unable to do so, then you can refer to my list below on ways I found useful in being able to soothe my flare-ups of anxiety, or other ways I found via research.
Anxiety is no fun. In this day and age, it is, unfortunately, becoming more common. When it comes to flare-ups, it is easy to feel helpless, but that isn’t the case. These episodes may make you feel as though you cannot overcome them, but you can combat these overwhelming feelings. You will reach a point in which you no longer have to fight anxiety. The sun will come out, the grass will grow, the birds will start chirping, and everything will fall into place. Just hold on, my friend. If you or anyone you know is facing anxiety or feelings of depression, please get help.
SAMHSA’s National Helpline - This link will take you to a page of various helplines, and a FAQ page for any questions you may have. Remedy Live - For those who do not wish to speak, Remedy Live includes a 24/7 chat service. Mind - This website includes links useful for those who face mental health issues. This is for those based in the UK.
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By Divaani I like listening to silence. It gives me time to wonder what could be. It allows me to unravel my thoughts and process them one after another. But often, I’m left with a turmoil of thoughts tangled in my mind creating a hurdle when I search for the right words to say; and I start to feel uneasy. It’s almost like something is pressing on my heart and it’s only getting louder and louder but in reality, there’s nothing accompanying me but silence.
Some have a name for people like us: introverts- labelled as individuals predominantly concerned with their own thoughts and feelings rather than with things going on around them. On the contrary, I think we’re misunderstood. The reason for our silence isn’t narcissism as subtly implied, but fear. This is usually the fear of not saying the right thing or just saying anything at all. I’d wait and wait for the right time to speak until I find that the moment’s gone; leaving me to listen and to observe. It soothes me. I’m always looking outside my window and just watching attentively. Sometimes, I’d see the figure of a mother holding the hand of her little one tightly; every so often ensuring that his scarf is wrapped around securely, keeping him warm. Other times, there’d be nothing but untrodden snow. I was just about to enter the hall occupied with strangers; all I knew was that they were interested in taking the same course as me and that they were clustered in the same age group. The room was filled with noises of excitement and teenagers chatting away amongst themselves. I envied them. They made it look so easy. I looked around me to see a clear division of newly formed groups. I spotted someone next to me and a mass of disorganised thoughts started to creep into my mind. Should I initiate a conversation? If I do, what do I say? What should I say to make myself seem interesting? Would they even want to talk to me? I could feel the heat rushing to my face as I cleared my throat to speak. But they turned around and smiled at me. More often than not, the world is a nice place. We’re reminded time and time again that everyone has concerns and fears. It’s okay to have these irrational thoughts. It’s okay that there are times you want to scream and there are times you want to hide. It is completely natural to feel this way but the only thing you need to acknowledge is that you don’t have to do it alone. There are so many people surrounding you who will only ever love you more if you ever decide to open up to them. We need human interaction; the sounds of laughing, teasing, reminiscing; the sounds of people to keep us going. We need each other to let ourselves be comforted. When you hear the word addiction, your mind automatically goes to drugs or alcohol. These things are considered bad for you when consumed in abundance. However, addiction can be of other kinds too. Addiction to gambling, shopping, and binge eating are just to name a few. Today, I’m going to shed some light on the addiction to cleaning or making sure your environment is perfect at all times. Now, the addiction to cleaning is not necessarily OCD but can be a symptom of it. If you think you might suffer from it, it is best to go and get a diagnosis from a professional doctor. Cleaning is almost always considered to be a positive thing. Cleanliness helps with focus; it reduces environmental health problems and might even help you sleep better. However, sometimes the obsession with cleaning might lead you to a point where you’re not able to sleep if your shoes are not in the cupboard or you can’t focus on your studies because the books are not in order. Some reasons why people may tend to clean up a lot can include the need to feel that they’re in control or the need to see everything around them in symmetry. Most of these habits do not raise any mental health flags as personalities vary and some just like having everything clean. However, if it is hindering your daily life, it would be wise to check with a doctor. It’s a good time to see a doctor when you’re spending hours cleaning one spot over and over or you wake up in the middle of the night just to clean the kitchen shelves and do not understand the motive behind your actions. As a person, I love having everything around me spick and span. I cannot start studying/working unless I have made my bed. I cannot sleep unless all my clothes are neatly folded in the closet and my books are in their designated spots. However, on some days, I let it go. Sometimes I’m not in the mood to clean up or I just have more urgent things to do. I understand my motive behind cleaning everything. In the morning, it is to be 100% focused on my tasks and at night it’s to make sure something does not poke my eye out as I sleep. Just like personality, people have different aesthetics too. For example, some people love having their work desk overflowing with plants and pictures while others go for a minimalistic look. I personally love the idea of having two books and a clean desk to start with every day. In conclusion, the need for a clean environment is good when it's just that. However, when it’s paired with anxiety and intrusive thoughts, it might not be just wanting a clean environment anymore. If you suffer from addiction or want to talk to someone about it, contact your local addiction helpline or contact this UK-based web chat for support. Always remember, that it is never too late to ask for support. https://www.addaction.org.uk/webchat Stay safe and stay happy <3 Aiza x AizaWhat is a mental breakdown? Well, according to WebMD, “a mental breakdown ( or a nervous breakdown) is a term that describes a period of extreme mental or emotional stress.” During these, the stress is overwhelming to the point that a person cannot perform normal day-to-day activities. Although “mental breakdown” is no longer considered a medical term, it is still used to describe intense stress and/or the inability to cope with a life change. Despite “mental breakdown” no longer being used as a term in the medical community, it has been used to describe a large scale of symptoms. These include:
People experiencing a nervous breakdown may also withdraw from family, friends, and/or co-workers. Signs of such withdrawal include:
To cope with a mental breakdown, you can try the following:
To get in contact with your local helplines then visit: https://checkpointorg.com/global/ -Indie Sahota Indie |
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